A Night of Rising Together

On Tuesday, August 25, more than 150 SFGMC friends and community members gathered at The Chan National Queer Arts Center for an evening of music, connection, and what’s next.

We were thrilled to introduce Lane Sugata as SFGMC’s new CEO. With Lane at the helm, we’re looking ahead to a future of deeper community connections, stronger community partnerships, and continuing to foster a more supportive and connected LGBTQ+ community.

We also introduced HarmonIQ, SFGMC’s newest ensemble, and gave guests a first look at Season 49: RISING.

Relive the night through photos and video from our Season 49 Reveal and CEO Meet & Greet.

Photos by Justin Pearson Photography

Outside Lands Was Unforgettable!

100 singers. One giant festival stage. Zero shortage of sparkle. 🌈

On Sunday, August 9, SFGMC kicked off Day Three of Outside Lands at Golden Gate Park’s Lands End Stage, bringing the big SFGMC energy to the day’s early festival crowd. The set included a high-energy rendition of “Pink Pony Club” and a surprise appearance by… Chappell Roan! (Okay, technically a fabulous lookalike—but we’re still counting it.) 

And we weren’t the only ones taking notes: SFist called out SFGMC as one of Sunday’s opening acts, highlighting the chorus’s “Pink Pony Club” and other pop favorites in its Day Three festival recap. 

We even warmed up the Bay Area on KPIX with a preview of “Unwritten” by Natasha Bedingfield, led by Associate Director of Music Education & Outreach Mitch Galli. You can watch the entire segment here.

We had a blast, and brought the memories home with us.

Photos by Jeff Littman.

Frameline Industry Day at The Chan

Photo by Ariana Minolli

The Chan National Queer Arts Center proudly hosted Frameline’s Industry Day as part of Frameline50, celebrating the 50th anniversary of the world's longest-running queer film festival. The event brought together filmmakers, distributors, critics, funders, and cultural leaders for conversations on the future of queer storytelling, financing, distribution, and media criticism, including a keynote discussion between Frameline Executive Director Allegra Madsen and filmmaker Lilly Wachowski.

Industry Day highlighted the power of collaboration across LGBTQ+ arts organizations and reinforced The Chan’s role as a hub for creativity, connection, and community. Congratulations to Frameline on 50 years of championing queer stories and artists.

California Honors SFGMC CEO Chris Verdugo

During Pride Month 2026, Chris Verdugo received two of the highest civic recognitions of his career, honored by both the City and County of San Francisco and the California Legislative LGBTQ Caucus for his leadership, service, and lasting contributions to the LGBTQ+ community through the arts.

The first recognition came from the San Francisco Board of Supervisors, where Board President Rafael Mandelman presented Verdugo with a commendation recognizing his decade of leadership as Chief Executive Officer of the San Francisco Gay Men's Chorus. The honor celebrated not only the organization's artistic excellence and remarkable growth under his tenure, but also its role as a powerful cultural institution advancing equality, visibility, and belonging through music. During Verdugo's leadership, SFGMC expanded its nationally recognized education programs, completed multiple national tours, launched the Chan National Queer Arts Center, grew from an $800,000 organization to more than $5 million annually, and solidified its position as one of the world's leading LGBTQ+ performing arts organizations.

Just days later, Verdugo was recognized at the California State Capitol as one of the California Legislative LGBTQ Caucus' 2026 Pride Honorees, nominated by State Senator Scott Wiener. Each year, the Caucus recognizes individuals from across California whose work has advanced LGBTQ+ equality, visibility, and community through leadership, advocacy, public service, education, culture, and the arts. The recognition placed Verdugo among a distinguished group of leaders whose contributions have strengthened the lives of LGBTQ+ Californians throughout the state.

Together, these honors recognize more than a decade of transformational leadership. During his ten years at the helm of SFGMC, Verdugo oversaw unprecedented organizational growth, guided the Chorus through the challenges of the pandemic, expanded its national artistic and advocacy footprint, and led the creation of the Chan National Queer Arts Center—the nation's first permanent LGBTQ+ arts center of its kind. His leadership helped redefine the organization's role not only as a world-class performing arts institution, but also as a powerful voice for equality, education, and community.

While these recognitions celebrate Verdugo's individual leadership, they also reflect the collective achievements of the hundreds of singers, board members, staff, volunteers, donors, artists, and community partners who helped shape the organization's success over the past decade.

Receiving both honors during Pride Month, as Verdugo concludes his tenure as CEO after ten years of service, stands as a fitting tribute to a career dedicated to harnessing the transformative power of music to inspire hope, foster belonging, and advance LGBTQ+ equality.

Dolly Brought Down the House!

What a way to close Season 48.

On June 13, more than 2,000 audience members filled Curran Theatre for Dolly! A Pride Show, an evening packed with heart, humor, rhinestones, and unforgettable music. From "9 to 5" to "Jolene" and beyond, SFGMC paid tribute to the beloved songs and enduring spirit of Dolly Parton in a joyful Pride celebration.

The performances also marked a bittersweet milestone as outgoing CEO Chris Verdugo took his final bow with SFGMC after 10 years of visionary leadership.

“While this role has undoubtedly made me a better leader, this organization—and its ridiculously talented, gracious, loving, and supportive board, staff, and most of all its members—has made me a better human being,” Chris shared.

To honor his extraordinary contributions, San Francisco Mayor Daniel Lurie proclaimed June 13 as Chris Verdugo Day.

Need a few tissues? So did we.

Pride Flags in Song: Music that Represents the LGBTQIA+ Spectrum

Pride flags are more than just colorful banners waving in the breeze in June as we march along the streets to be seen and heard. They're symbols of identity, resilience, and the vibrant diversity within the LGBTQIA+ community. Each flag, with its unique combination of colors and patterns, represents a specific group within the spectrum, from the iconic rainbow flag that encompasses us all to more nuanced variations representing lesbian, bisexual, transgender, and countless other identities. These flags have become rallying points for visibility, acceptance, and the ongoing fight for equality.

But Pride isn't just about waving flags; it's about expressing our authentic selves through every creative outlet available. And for many in the community, music has always been a powerful tool to do just that. Songs can capture the joy of love, the pain of discrimination, the thrill of coming out, and the unwavering spirit of our fight for freedom. 

So, we've scoured the internet for you to find the best songs that celebrate and represent the myriad identities within the LGBTQIA+ community. We all have different tastes in music, so we've carefully selected tracks either penned or performed by LGBTQ+ artists and beloved allies whose lyrics, we feel, resonate with the community.

Lesbian Pride

Lesbian Pride is represented by several flags, most commonly the lipstick lesbian flag featuring shades of pink, orange, and white, or the sunset lesbian flag with its fiery gradient of oranges, reds, and pinks. Each embodies the spectrum of lesbian identity and experiences, from the celebration of love and femininity to the reclamation of autonomy and strength.

Add these to your playlist:

Girls Like Girls by Hayley Kiyoko

The ultimate lesbian anthem, this song captures the thrill and anxiety of falling for another girl. Kiyoko's lyrics are straightforward and relatable, making this song a timeless classic.

"Girls like girls, like boys do, nothing new

Isn't this why we came? Gotta get with you"

Take Me or Leave Me from Rent

From the musical Rent, Take Me or Leave Me depicts the passionate and tumultuous relationship between Maureen and Joanne, two strong-willed women who fiercely love each other despite their differences. 

"Take me for what I am

Who I was meant to be

And if you give a damn

Take me, baby

Or leave me"

Be Your Man by G Flip

G Flip's heartfelt declaration of love and devotion transcends gender norms, offering a powerful message of acceptance and support.

"I know how you think and what you like

And what your body needs

Convinced you should run from me

I'm not what you planned

But I'll be your man"

She Keeps Me Warm by Mary Lambert

This beautiful ballad was born out of Macklemore & Ryan Lewis' "Same Love" and dives deeper into the intimacy and warmth of a lesbian relationship.

"She says I smell like safety and home

I named both of her eyes Forever and Please Don't Go"

Gay Pride

The Gay Pride flag, or rainbow flag, is a symbol of LGBTQ+ pride and social movements. Designed by Gilbert Baker in 1978, its eight colors each hold significance: red for life, orange for healing, yellow for sunlight, green for nature, turquoise for magic/art, blue for serenity/harmony, indigo for spirit, and violet for pride. Over time, the flag has been simplified to six colors, but its message of love, acceptance, and diversity remains as powerful as ever.

Add these to your playlist:

MONTERO (Call Me By Your Name) by Lil Nas X

Lil Nas X's unapologetic embrace of queerness in a genre dominated by heteronormative narratives makes this song a powerful statement for the LGBTQ+ community.

"Call me when you want, call me when you need

Call me in the morning, I'll be on the way"

Smalltown Boy by Bronski Beat

A song for anyone who's ever felt like an outsider, longing for acceptance and a place to belong. This synth-pop classic captures the pain and isolation of growing up gay in a small town. 

"Mother will never understand why you had to leave

But the answers you seek will never be found at home

The love that you need will never be found at home"

Freedom! '90 by George Michael

A dance track embodying self-expression and the freedom to be yourself, George Michael's iconic vocals and the song's liberating message have made it an enduring anthem for the LGBTQ+ community.

"I just hope you understand

Sometimes the clothes do not make the man"

Bisexual Pride

The Bisexual Pride flag is a symbol of pride and visibility for the bisexual community. Designed in 1998 by Michael Page, the flag features three horizontal stripes: pink, purple, and blue. The pink represents attraction to the same sex, the blue represents attraction to the opposite sex, and the purple symbolizes the attraction to both.

Add these to your playlist:

Boy Bi by Mad Tsai

An upbeat and playful pop song about the joys and complexities of being bisexual, Tsai's catchy melodies and witty lyrics playfully navigate the stereotypes and misconceptions surrounding bisexuality, offering a refreshing and authentic perspective.

"Oh, it sucks sometimes to be right in the in-between

I'm too gay for girls, too straight to be a drag queen"

Gettin' Bi from Crazy Ex-Girlfriend

A quirky and funny song from the musical comedy series about bisexuality sung with a healthy dose of self-awareness and a catchy tune.

"Are you just gay?

Why don't you just go gay all the way?"

But that's not it

'Cause bi's legit"

I Can Have Both by Morrissey

This iconic song by the openly bisexual Morrissey is a defiant declaration of the right to love and desire without limitations. You don't have to choose. 

"There's nobody around to say no

Who've brain-washed the small shy boy inside

He doesn't know he can have both"

Bisexual Anthem by Domo Wilson

This powerful rap song offers a raw and unapologetic look at the bisexual experience. Wilson's lyrics tackle the challenges of coming out, dealing with biphobia, and finding acceptance within the LGBTQ+ community.

"How the fuck you date a guy when you're bi

You're a fake ass dyke I don't like you, I won't lie

You cannot date both, pick a side, pick a side

Do you like fuckin' girls or do you like fuckin guys?"

I like both, bi pride stand up"

Transgender Pride

The Transgender Pride flag is a symbol of pride and resilience for the transgender community. Designed by Monica Helms in 1999, the flag features five horizontal stripes: two light blue, two pink, and one white in the center. Its light blue and pink stripes represent the traditional colors associated with boys and girls, and the white represents those who are transitioning, intersex, or consider themselves having a neutral or undefined gender.

Add these to your playlist:

Transgender Dysphoria Blues by Against Me!

Lead singer Laura Jane Grace, who came out as a transgender woman in 2012, offers a powerful voice for those grappling with their identity in this raw and honest punk rock anthem that delves into the pain and struggles of gender dysphoria. 

"You want them to notice

The ragged ends of your summer dress

You want them to see you

Like they see any other girl"

I Am Her by Shea Diamond

Shea Diamond, a Black transgender woman, uses her powerful voice to uplift and inspire others to embrace their true selves in this soulful and empowering anthem that celebrates transgender women and their strength. 

"Your ignorance leave the head of the stench

The Aroma lingers on generations have known

Ain't it ironic the smarter we get

The less we understand about the simplest shit"

True Trans Soul Rebel by Against Me!

Another powerful track by Against Me!, this song embraces rebellion and the refusal to conform to societal expectations of gender. It's an anthem for anyone who feels different and is determined to live authentically.

"Who's gonna take you home tonight?

Who's gonna take you home?

Does God bless your transsexual heart?

True trans soul rebel"

The Village by Wrabel

Written by Wrabel as a tribute to the transgender community following the withdrawal of federal protections for trans-identifying students in public schools, is a song about acceptance and self-love, particularly in the face of adversity, judgment and rejection. 

"They say, "Don't dare, don't you even go there. 

Cutting off your long hair. You do as you're told"

Tell you, "Wake up, go put on your makeup

This is just a phase you're gonna outgrow"

It's Okay to Cry by SOPHIE

This experimental pop song, by the late transgender musician SOPHIE, embraces vulnerability and emotional expression. The song's ethereal music and gentle vocals offer a safe space for listeners to connect with their own emotions and find strength in their vulnerability.

"I can see the truth through all the lies

And even after all this time

Just know you've got nothing to hide

It's okay to cry"

Queer Pride

The Queer Pride flag is a symbol of inclusivity and diversity within the LGBTQIA+ community. It encompasses all sexual orientations and gender identities that fall outside of heteronormativity and cisgender norms. Its colors (lavender, white, and dark violet) symbolize community, healing, and spirit.

Add these to your playlist:

Q.U.E.E.N. by Janelle Monáe (feat. Erykah Badu)

A funky and empowering anthem, Q.U.E.E.N. embodies queerness, individuality, and the power of self-expression. Monáe's bold vocals and Badu's soulful interjections create an infectious groove that's impossible to resist.

"Hey sister am I good enough for your Heaven?

Say will your God accept me in my black and white?

Will he approve the way I'm made?

Or should I reprogram, deprogram and get down?"

Bird, You Can Fly by Eyemèr

A gentle and uplifting folk song, this song speaks to the journey of self-discovery and finding your own voice. Eyemèr's tender vocals and acoustic guitar create a soothing atmosphere, while the lyrics offer a message of hope and empowerment.

"So the time has come

For your soul to finally belong

Stop the facade

Though the world is not ready for you and I"

Rebel Rebel" - David Bowie

"Rebel Rebel," an iconic glam rock anthem by David Bowie, embodies nonconformity and the freedom to be yourself. Bowie's flamboyant persona and gender-bending style made him a queer icon, and this song's rebellious spirit continues to resonate with those who challenge societal norms.

"You've got your mother in a whirl

She's not sure if you're a boy or a girl."

Intersex Pride

The Intersex Pride flag is a symbol of intersex pride and activism, created in 2013 by Morgan Carpenter of Intersex Human Rights Australia. Its yellow background and purple circle represent the right to bodily autonomy and self-determination for intersex individuals.

Add these to your playlist:

Body Was Made by Ezra Furman

A folk-rock song by Ezra Furman, "Body Was Made" offers a tender and affirming message about body acceptance and self-love. Furman's gentle vocals and poetic lyrics create a safe space for embracing our bodies, regardless of how they conform to societal standards.

"Your body is yours at the end of the day

And don't let the hateful try and take it away

We want to be free, yeah, we go our own way

And my body was made, oh"

We Exist by Arcade Fire

A powerful anthem for marginalized communities, this song speaks to the struggle for recognition and the right to exist authentically. While not specifically about intersex people, its message of solidarity and defiance against discrimination resonates with many who feel unseen or unheard.

"When you walk in the room

Tell 'em it's fine

Stare if you like

Just let us through"

Turn the Lights Off by Tally Hall 

This alternative rock song delves into the themes of isolation, anxiety, and the desire to hide from the world. While not explicitly about being intersex, its lyrics about feeling different and not fitting in resonate with the experiences of many intersex individuals.

"Everybody likes to get taken for turns

To see how bright the fire inside of us burns

And everybody wants to get evil tonight

But all good devils masquerade under the light"

Asexual Pride

The Asexual Pride flag, created in 2010, is a symbol of pride and visibility for the asexual community. It consists of four horizontal stripes: black, grey, white, and purple. The black represents asexuality, the grey represents the gray-area between sexual and asexual, the white represents sexuality, and the purple represents community.

Add these to your playlist:

U Can't Touch This by MC Hammer

While not explicitly about asexuality, this iconic song's playful message of boundaries and personal space can resonate with those who prioritize non-sexual connection.

"I told you, homeboy

You can't touch this

Yeah, that's how we livin', and ya know

You can't touch this"

We'll Never Have Sex by Leith Ross

This folk-pop ballad offers a tender and honest exploration of asexuality and romantic love. Ross's gentle vocals and heartfelt lyrics challenge the notion that sex is essential for intimacy, offering a refreshing perspective on relationships.

"Depollute me, gentle angel

And I'll feel the sickness less and less

Come and kiss me, pretty baby

Like we'll never have sex"

We Don't Have to Take Our Clothes Off (To Have a Good Time) by Jermaine Stewart

An 80s dance-pop anthem that embodies the joy of connection and fun without the pressure of sexual intimacy, its upbeat rhythm and catchy melody make it a perfect soundtrack for acknowledging platonic love and friendship.

"But I'm not a piece of meat, stimulate my brain, no

The night is young, and so are we

Let's just get to know each other slow and easily, oh"

D&D and Asexuality by the Skull Puppies

This quirky and humorous song playfully addresses the stereotypes and misconceptions surrounding asexuality, using the context of a Dungeons & Dragons game. It's a fun and lighthearted anthem that promotes acceptance and understanding.

"Am I a zombie if I don't want in your pants?

You'll find my mind is much more sexy if you just give it a chance

I wanna go for a ride with you but only literally

Really love to hang at your place if you've actually got coffee"

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From iconic anthems to heartfelt ballads, these songs, created by and for the LGBTQIA+ community, are powerful expressions of love, resilience, and the ongoing fight for equality. They remind us that music can be a source of comfort, strength, and unity, and that our voices, through song, will continue to rise above the noise and demand to be heard.coffee.

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13 LGBTQ+ Books to Read Now & Share With Your Community

Last month, we shared our love for LGBTQ+ cinema with 30 films to celebrate 30 days of Pride. But the celebration doesn't have to end there! Pride Month may be over, but the spirit of pride lives on all year long.

To keep the spirit of Pride alive, we've curated a list of 13 incredible LGBTQ+ books – one for each month of the year, plus one more for luck. Dive in!

Fun Home by Alison Bechdel

This graphic memoir is a raw, intimate portrayal of Bechdel's coming-of-age as a lesbian, intertwined with the complexities of her relationship with her closeted gay father. Its honest exploration of family secrets and self-discovery is both heartbreaking and uplifting.

Less by Andrew Sean Greer

Need a good laugh? Follow Arthur Less, a not-so-famous gay author, as he embarks on a hilariously disastrous world tour to avoid his ex's wedding. This Pulitzer Prize-winning novel by Andrew Sean Greer is a charming and witty adventure that will have you rooting for Less as he navigates awkward encounters, unexpected romances, and a whole lot of self-reflection.

Giovanni's Room, by James Baldwin

A masterpiece of queer literature, this novel tells the story of David, an American in Paris wrestling with his identity and desires. Baldwin's prose is as beautiful as it is devastating, capturing the isolation and longing of a man struggling to reconcile his love for another man with societal expectations.

On Earth We're Briefly Gorgeous by Ocean Vuong

This book is a lyrical masterpiece, like reading a long, beautiful poem. It's a letter from a Vietnamese-American son to his illiterate mother, exploring themes of queerness, trauma, and the immigrant experience. Vuong's writing is so vivid and visceral that you'll feel every word in your bones.

Gender Outlaw by Kate Bornstein

This groundbreaking book challenges everything you thought you knew about what it means to be a man or a woman. It's a witty, irreverent, and ultimately liberating exploration of gender as a social construct, encouraging us all to embrace our authentic selves.

We Are Everywhere: Protest, Power, and Pride in the History of Queer Liberation by Matthew Riemer and Leighton Brown

This stunning visual history chronicles the LGBTQ+ rights movement through photographs, posters, and personal artifacts. It's a powerful reminder of the struggles, triumphs, and ongoing fight for equality.

The Heart's Invisible Furies by John Boyne

Follow the life of Cyril Avery, a gay man growing up in Ireland, from his turbulent childhood to his search for love and acceptance. This sweeping novel explores themes of family, sexuality, loss, and the societal changes that shaped LGBTQ+ lives in the 20th century.

The Great Believers by Rebecca Makkai 

Set against the backdrop of the AIDS crisis in 1980s Chicago, this National Book Award finalist weaves together a tapestry of love, loss, and resilience. It follows a group of friends as they grapple with the devastating impact of the epidemic, exploring themes of grief, community, and the importance of finding joy even in the darkest of times.Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.

Tipping the Velvet by Sarah Waters

This historical novel takes you on a wild ride through Victorian England's music halls and lesbian underground. Follow Nan Astley, a young woman who discovers her sexuality and embarks on a passionate love affair. It's a captivating story filled with adventure, desire, and social commentary.

The Price of Salt by Patricia Highsmith

This classic lesbian romance novel, originally published in 1952 under a pseudonym, tells the story of Therese, a young aspiring set designer, and Carol, an elegant older woman going through a divorce. Their chance encounter in a department store sparks a passionate affair that challenges societal norms and forces them to confront their desires in a world that shuns their love.

This Is How You Lose the Time War by Amal El-Mohtar and Max Gladstone

This genre-bending love story unfolds through a series of letters exchanged between two time-traveling agents from warring factions. As their rivalry turns to forbidden romance, their letters become a battleground of passion, wit, and the enduring power of connection. It's a unique and beautifully written novel that will leave you breathless.

Orlando by Virginia Woolf 

Buckle up for a gender-bending, time-traveling adventure! This classic novel follows Orlando, a nobleman who mysteriously transforms into a woman and lives for centuries, experiencing different eras and societies. It's a witty and philosophical exploration of gender, identity, and the nature of time itself.Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.

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These LGBTQ books aren't just about love stories or coming-out narratives – it's about capturing the full spectrum of human experiences through a queer lens. It's about finding mirrors that reflect our own lives, windows into worlds we may not understand, and doors that open up new possibilities. These stories provide solace, inspiration, and a sense of belonging for LGBTQ+ readers, while also challenging stereotypes and broadening perspectives for allies.

In the face of ongoing efforts to suppress queer narratives, LGBTQ+ literature serves as a powerful tool for reclaiming our voices and asserting our place in the world. It's a declaration that our stories matter, our lives are valid, and our love is worthy of celebration. By reading and supporting LGBTQ+ authors, we champion diverse representation in literature, fostering a more inclusive and understanding society where everyone can see themselves reflected in the stories we tell.

So, read and tell your family and friends to read. May these stories spark conversation, deepen empathy, and fuel our collective fight for a more inclusive and equitable world.

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Lessons from Harvey Milk for Today's LGBTQ+ Activists

In the heart of San Francisco's vibrant Castro district, Harvey Milk Plaza stands as a tribute to the life and legacy of a man whose passionate advocacy ignited a movement. Harvey Milk, a beacon of hope, a voice for the marginalized, and a champion for love in the face of hate, was a force to be reckoned with. His historic election to the San Francisco Board of Supervisors in 1977 shattered barriers and amplified the voices of the LGBTQ+ community.

His charisma, wit, and unwavering belief in equality inspired countless individuals to fight for their rights. Though his life was tragically cut short, Milk's legacy lives on, his spirit echoing through the streets he once walked and in the hearts of those who continue to advocate for justice.

His words, fueled by raw emotion and a burning desire for change, remain as potent today as they were during his lifetime. They remind us that hope is a powerful weapon against adversity, a call to action for those who believe in a better world. 

Let's explore six Harvey Milk quotes from his speeches and interviews that continue to inspire and guide the LGBTQ+ movement:

"I know that you cannot live on hope alone, but without it, life is not worth living. And you, and you, and you, you gotta give 'em hope."

Harvey Milk's words resonated with a raw honesty and passion that touched the hearts of countless LGBTQ+ individuals. He understood that hope, especially in the face of adversity, is what makes life worth living and fuels the fight for a better future. In his iconic 'Hope Speech', he challenged each of us to be a beacon of hope for others, to inspire and empower them to never give up on the pursuit of a world where love and equality prevail.

This message resonates now more than ever, as the LGBTQ+ community continues to face challenges and fight for their rights. Hope is the driving force behind every march, every protest, and every demand for change. When we believe that change is possible, even in the face of seemingly insurmountable obstacles, we become a force to be reckoned with, unstoppable in our pursuit of a brighter future.

"If a bullet should enter my brain, let that bullet destroy every closet door."

These haunting words, recorded by Harvey Milk shortly before his assassination, proved eerily prescient. Milk understood that his visibility as an openly gay politician made him a target, but he also recognized the transformative power of his sacrifice. He knew that his death could galvanize the community and spark a wave of LGBTQ+ activism.

In the aftermath of his murder, Milk's words became a rallying cry. Countless LGBTQ+ individuals were inspired to come out, embracing their identities and refusing to hide in fear. Milk's martyrdom ignited a fire within the community, propelling the fight for equality forward with renewed vigor.

His legacy serves as a reminder that visibility is a powerful tool for combating injustice. By living openly and authentically, we honor his sacrifice and carry on his fight for a world where everyone is free to be themselves. It's a call for all of us to speak out, advocate, and never stop pushing for a future where every closet door is forever destroyed.

"My name is Harvey Milk, and I'm here to recruit you."

With these words, Milk issued a direct challenge to every listener, inviting them to join the fight for equality. He understood that activism wasn't just for politicians or celebrities; it was a responsibility for every individual.

Milk's approach was rooted in grassroots organizing, empowering ordinary people to take action in their own communities. He believed that the collective voices of everyday individuals, speaking out and demanding change, could have a profound impact. Whether it was organizing boycotts, phone banking, or simply talking to your neighbors about LGBTQ+ rights, every action mattered.

We all have a role to play in shaping a more just and inclusive society. And it's not always about grand gestures or sweeping legislative changes. Sometimes, it's about showing up at a rally, volunteering your time, or simply having the courage to speak your truth. Big or small, every action matters. 

"Rights are won only by those who make their voices heard."

This powerful statement by Harvey Milk underscores the importance of political engagement and advocacy. Progress is not simply handed down, it's fought for. Voting, contacting elected officials, and championing LGBTQ+ representation in government are all crucial steps in making sure that our voices are heard and our needs are met.

When LGBTQ+ individuals hold positions of power, it not only leads to policies that protect and support our community, but it also increases our visibility and normalizes our presence in society. From local city council members to state legislators and even national leaders, our elected officials can shape laws, advocate for resources, and inspire others to fight for equality.

But it's not just about the big names in politics. Grassroots activism, where individuals come together to advocate for change within their communities, has also been instrumental in advancing LGBTQ+ rights. Like in the early days of the SFGMC, when 100 LGBTQ+ members stood on the steps of City Hall, their voices united in song, demanding to be heard. That collective power echoes through our work today. Whether it's marching in a Pride parade, volunteering for a local organization, or simply speaking up for what you believe in, every action contributes to a larger movement.

"You must come out. Come out to your parents. I know that it is hard and will hurt them, but think about how they will hurt you in the voting booth! Come out to your relatives. Come out to your friends, if indeed they are your friends. Come out to your neighbors, to your fellow workers, to the people who work where you eat and shop. Come out only to the people you know, and who know you, not to anyone else. But once and for all, break down the myths. Destroy the lies and distortions. For your sake. For their sake"

Harvey Milk's impassioned plea to the LGBTQ+ community during his speech at San Francisco's Gay Freedom Day Celebration was a call to arms, urging individuals to step out of the shadows and embrace their authentic selves. He acknowledged the deep fear and pain associated with coming out, recognizing the potential for rejection, discrimination, and even violence. But Milk also understood the transformative power of visibility. He believed that by living openly and honestly, LGBTQ+ individuals could challenge harmful stereotypes, build community, and ultimately change hearts and minds.

Coming out is a deeply personal journey, and there's no right or wrong way to do it. It's a decision that each person must make for themselves, weighing the risks and rewards. However, coming out can be more than just a personal liberation – it can be an act of activism. When we share our stories and refuse to hide, we challenge the invisibility that perpetuates discrimination. We show the world that LGBTQ+ people are everywhere, living ordinary lives, loving, working, and contributing to society.

"It takes no compromise to give people their rights...it takes no money to respect the individual. It takes no political deal to give people freedom. It takes no survey to remove repression."

These words, simple yet powerful, cut through political maneuvering and remind us that basic human rights are not up for negotiation.

This is especially important in the current political climate, where LGBTQ+ rights are being targeted by discriminatory legislation and hateful rhetoric. Equality cannot be achieved through incremental concessions or compromises. True liberation means demanding full recognition of our humanity, our dignity, and our right to love and live freely.

From battles over transgender healthcare and bathroom access to ongoing discrimination in housing and employment, we're reminded that some rights are not subject to debate. We cannot compromise on our right to exist authentically, love freely, and live without fear. Milk's legacy urges us to stand firm in the face of opposition and demand nothing less than full equality.

Keep the hope alive

Harvey Milk's voice may have been silenced, but his words continue to echo through the decades. His unwavering belief in the power of hope, visibility, and relentless activism remains a guiding light for the LGBTQ+ community and beyond.

We must remember that rights are not simply given, they are won through collective action, individual courage, and a refusal to compromise on our fundamental values. Whether it's coming out to your family and friends, advocating for LGBTQ+ representation in government, or simply speaking up against injustice, each action matters. 

Let's honor Harvey Milk's legacy by continuing his fight, breaking down barriers, and building a world where everyone is free to live their truth. As Milk so passionately proclaimed, "You gotta give 'em hope." Let us be that beacon of hope for ourselves and for generations to come.

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Must-See Drag Shows in San Francisco

San Francisco's vibrant arts and culture scene has long been a haven for creative expression, and its drag performances are no exception. From the iconic entertainers who graced legendary stages like Finocchio's to the queens of the Compton's Cafeteria riot, drag has played a central role in the city's LGBTQ+ history and activism. 

Today, the city's drag scene flourishes – reflecting not only the city's open-minded spirit and its unwavering support for the LGBTQ+ community but also the incredible progress we've made in our journey toward true self-expression.

Here are some of the best drag shows in San Francisco you shouldn't miss:

Oasis

Housed in a converted bathhouse in the heart of SoMa, Oasis is the spot for an authentic San Francisco drag experience. Catch the weekly drag spectacular — Princess on Saturdays or the monthly all-Black drag show, Reparations. With a variety of themed shows featuring live music, dance, and even circus acts, Oasis offers a unique night out. 

Grab a drink and a bite, enjoy the show, or head to the rooftop patio for a breather while still catching the action via live stream. Check their website or social media for upcoming drag shows in San Francisco!

Lips & Lashes at The Lookout

Who doesn't love a good drag brunch? Lips & Lashes at The Lookout is a staple drag brunch in San Francisco for locals and tourists alike. It's always good fun. Hosted by the vivacious Carnie Asada, this is no ordinary brunch. 

You'll be treated to a rotating cast of the Bay Area's most talented drag performers, showcasing everything from show-stopping illusions to live vocals and hilarious comedy. Pair that with delectable food and tasty cocktails, and you've got the perfect recipe for a weekend filled with laughter, entertainment, and pure fabulousness.

Clutch the Pearls at The Make Out Room:

For a more intimate and unpredictable drag experience, head to The Make Out Room in the Mission on the first Sunday of every month for "Clutch the Pearls." Hosted by the fabulous Mira, this $10 show features some of the Bay Area's hottest drag performers. It's a night of raw talent, creative energy, and authentic drag at its finest.

The Monster Show at The Edge

Thursday nights in the Castro belong to The Monster Show, a drag extravaganza that's been thrilling audiences for two decades. With a new theme each week, you never know what kind of outrageousness awaits you. Expect jaw-dropping costumes, high-energy performances, and a whole lot of fun. They also host drag viewing parties where you can cheer on your favorite queens together!

Aunt Charlie’s Lounge

Tucked away in the Tenderloin, Aunt Charlie's Lounge is a true San Francisco institution. This no-frills dive bar is known for its cheap drinks, friendly atmosphere, and, most importantly, its fabulous drag shows.

On Friday and Saturday nights, catch the iconic "Hot Boxxx Girls" drag show, a raucous celebration of self-expression and outrageous talent. If you're looking for something different, 'Angels' is their monthly drag show and dance party held every second Tuesday, offering a night of high-energy performances and a chance to dance the night away for just a $5 cover.

Midnight Sun

A Castro original for over 50 years, Midnight Sun is a beloved LGBTQ+ video bar and a true neighborhood institution. Known for its welcoming atmosphere and friendly staff, this video bar offers a variety of entertainment, including their popular Monday night drag show, M@M. Beyond that, Sundays are always a surprise, with rotating events like themed drag shows, drag brunches, and cabaret performances.

Plus, if you're a RuPaul Drag Race fan, don't miss their Friday viewing parties – it's the perfect spot to cheer on your favorite queens. Check out their Instagram or Eventbrite page for their latest upcoming shows and events.

Beaux

This lively venue knows how to throw a party, with themed nights happening every day of the week. But when it comes to drag, Beaux doesn't hold back. Their weekend SF drag brunches are the perfect way to kick-start your Saturday or Sunday with dazzling performances, bottomless mimosas, and a whole lot of fun. 

Sunday nights are reserved for the legendary Big Top Sundays drag show, a spectacle that attracts both locals and tourists. Hosted by the charismatic Melanie Sparks, the show features a rotating roster of dazzling drag queens, often including guest stars from RuPaul's Drag Race.

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Whether you're a seasoned queen or a drag newbie, head out and experience the magic of the city's drag scene for yourself! Watch a drag show in SF or two or marathon it all.  You'll be glad you did.

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13 Non-Binary Artists to Listen to this International Non-Binary People's Day

July 14th isn't just another day on the calendar; it's a day to shatter the binary and celebrate the glorious spectrum of gender. It's International Non-Binary People's Day, a moment to honor those who redefine what it means to be human, who challenge norms, and who show us that identity isn't a box to be checked, but a universe to explore. 

And as part of the San Francisco Gay Men's Chorus's commitment to uplift LGBTQIA+ voices, we invite you to discover these non-binary artists from around the world who are making waves in the music industry. From genre-bending pioneers to fresh faces on the scene, these musicians are painting a musical landscape as diverse as the identities they represent. Their music spans genres, defying labels and expressing the full spectrum of human experience.  

So plug in your headphones, turn up the volume, and get ready to discover your new obsession. This International Non-Binary People's Day, let the music guide you on a journey of love, acceptance, and pure musical bliss.

1. Dorian Electra

Hailing from Houston, Texas, Dorian Electra is a non-binary artist known for their boundary-pushing music and self-professed flamboyant style. Electra's work is a whirlwind of visual extravagance, often featuring elaborate costumes and hyper-stylized music videos. The pop sensation's music, a mix of hyperpop, electronic, and baroque influences, tackles themes of gender, sexuality, consumerism, and internet culture with a healthy dose of satire and social commentary.

Must-Listen Track: "Man to Man" – This song challenges traditional notions of masculinity, celebrating individuality and self-expression. Its catchy beat and tongue-in-cheek lyrics are sure to get you thinking and dancing!

2. yeule

Singapore-born, London-based Nat Ćmiel, known artistically as yeule, is a multi-faceted artist whose work defies easy categorization. They first entered the music scene as a teenager, self-releasing songs that laid the groundwork for their current status as a cult icon. yeule's experimental pop music delves deep into the emotional landscape of the outsider, exploring themes of identity, trauma, and self-reclamation. Their music range from cathartic punk riffs to ethereal electronics, all while incorporating elements of the classical canon, internet culture, and even academic theory.

Must-Listen Track: "Pocky Boy" - A hauntingly beautiful track exploring themes of mental health and isolation, showcasing yeule's ability to turn vulnerability into art.

3. Frances Forever

Frances Forever is a non-binary singer and songwriter from Massachusetts who burst onto the scene with their viral hit "Space Girl." Their music is a dreamy blend of indie pop and bedroom pop, often featuring catchy melodies and lyrics exploring themes of love, identity, and self-discovery.

Must-Listen Track: "Space Girl" is an upbeat anthem of self-acceptance, perfect for embracing your unique quirks and celebrating who you are.

4. Roxen

Romanian pop artist Roxen is known for their powerful vocals, emotional honesty, and unique sound that mixes melancholic ballads and upbeat dance tracks. Roxen's androgynous style and refusal to conform to traditional gender roles have made them a role model for young people who embrace fluidity. In interviews, they've openly discussed their mental health struggles and the importance of self-acceptance, further resonating with fans who relate to their openness and vulnerability.

Must-Listen Track: "Amnesia" - This evocative electro-pop ballad, Romania's entry for the Eurovision Song Contest 2021, explores themes of self-doubt, societal pressure, and ultimately, the importance of self-love.

5. Yves Tumor

Born Sean Bowie, the enigmatic artist known as Yves Tumor defies categorization. Raised in Knoxville, Tennessee, their musical journey took them to Los Angeles and later to Europe, where they honed their distinct sound in underground scenes. This genre-bending musician pushes the boundaries of rock, electronic, and psychedelic music, crafting soundscapes that are as experimental as they are emotionally evocative.

Must-Listen Track: Listen to their latest album, "Praise a Lord Who Chews But Which Does Not Consume; (Or Simply, Hot Between Worlds)," for a wild ride. If you're looking for something specific, "Kerosene!" is a fiery and intense track that showcases Tumor's raw vocal talent and experimental approach to music.

6. Nxdia

Sudanese-Egyptian singer, songwriter, and producer Nxdia brings a fresh perspective to the UK music scene with their easy alternative tracks and relatable lyrics. Spending their early years in Egypt before moving to the UK at age 8, Nxdia found their voice through music, releasing their first single in 2021 after gaining a following on TikTok. Through their music, Nxdia aims to create a safe and welcoming community where everyone feels seen and heard.

Must-Listen Track:  "She Likes a Boy," a song that explores the confusing experience of having a crush on someone who just isn't into you.

7. Adeem the Artist

Adeem the Artist is a force to be reckoned with in the alternative country and folk scene. From North Carolina, their music is both heartfelt and cutting, with lyrics that tackle social issues like poverty, class inequality, and queerness in rural America. With a voice as smooth as Tennessee whiskey, their heartfelt lyrics and soulful melodies resonate with listeners who crave both vulnerability and a good dose of truth.

Must-Listen Track: "Carolina" is a deeply personal and moving anthem about growing up queer in the South.

8. NoSo (Baekhyun Hwong)

NoSo (Baekhyun Hwong):

A multi-talented Korean-American artist hailing from the suburbs of Chicago, NoSo creates heartfelt indie-folk music that delves into themes of identity, belonging, and the complexities of the Asian-American experience. Their acclaimed debut album, "Stay Proud of Me," is a powerful testament to self-discovery and acceptance. As an openly non-binary artist, NoSo's music resonates deeply with those navigating similar journeys, offering solace, validation, and a sense of community through shared experiences.

Must-Listen Track: Listen to "Suburbia," the opening track of "Stay Proud of Me," for a taste of their signature melancholic yet hopeful sound.

9. Bambie Thug

Representing Ireland at Eurovision 2024, Bambie Thug isn't your average pop star. This Irish singer-songwriter mixes industrial metal, pop, and electronica into a sound they've dubbed "ouija-pop." Their music is as eclectic as their personal style, and their Eurovision entry, "Doomsday Blue," made waves with its unique sound and theatrical performance. As an openly non-binary artist, Bambie Thug's visibility on a global stage is a win for representation, proving that creativity and identity know no boundaries.

Must-Listen Track: Check out "Doomsday Blue" or dive into their EPs "Psilocyber," "High Romancy," or "Cathexis" for a full dose of their creativity.

10. Tash Sultana

This Australian multi-instrumentalist is a one-person powerhouse, effortlessly weaving together looping, beatboxing, and diverse musical styles to create a unique musical experience. Their soulful vocals and virtuosic skills on guitar, keys, and various percussion instruments have garnered them a devoted global following. As a non-binary artist, Tash Sultana's music transcends traditional labels and speaks to the power of embracing individuality and following your own creative path.

Must-Listen Track: Their breakout hit "Jungle," or "Notion" are a great starting point to explore Tash's music. 

11. Mal Blum

With a heart full of wit and wisdom, Mal Blum is a New York-based singer-songwriter known for their infectious energy and sharp lyricism. Having cut their teeth on the DIY scene, Blum's music has evolved into a potent pop-punk sound that tackles complex emotions with honesty and humor. 

An openly non-binary artist, their experiences inform songs that touch on queerness, mental health, and navigating life's ups and downs. Their live shows are legendary for their mix of witty banter and heartfelt performances.

Must-Listen Track: "Better Go!" is an upbeat, empowering anthem about leaving behind toxic situations and relationships. It's the perfect song for anyone who's ready to move on and embrace a brighter future.

12. Hikes (Nay Mapalo/Adobo)

Hikes, led by the multi-talented Nay Mapalo, defies genre boundaries with their nature-inspired experimental rock sound. Under the moniker Adobo, Mapalo creates deeply personal and emotive songs rooted in Ilokano folklore, pop composition, and intricate guitar work. Whether performing solo or with the full band, Hikes' music explores a wide range of experiences, from the ethereal and hopeful to the raw and vulnerable. Their collaborations with other artists and dynamic live shows continue to captivate audiences worldwide.

Must-Listen Track: Explore their album "Lilt" or the Adobo EP "Backdrop"with The Kraken Quarter. Both projects showcase Mapalo's lyrical depth and instrumental prowess.

13. Elliot Sumner

Born into music royalty, this English singer-songwriter and actor is the child of musician Sting and actress Trudie Styler. They first gained recognition under the moniker I Blame Coco with their debut album "The Constant" in 2010. Since then, they have embraced their own name and explored a more alternative rock and indie pop sound, with heartfelt lyrics and a distinctive voice. Their music and acting career continue to evolve, with a notable role in the upcoming Netflix series, Ripley.

Must-Listen Track: "After Dark" - - A recent single that infuses Sumner's rock roots with electropop. You can hear their father's musical legacy can be heard in Sumner's vocals, but their sound is distinctly their own.

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These 13 non-binary musicians are just a glimpse into the vast spectrum of talent and creativity within the LGBTQIA+ community. This International Non-Binary People's Day, let's celebrate the power of music to break down barriers, challenge norms, and create spaces of belonging for all. 

As we listen to these artists, we not only discover new sounds, but we also expand our understanding of gender and identity. Their music reminds us that there is no one way to be, no single story to tell, and that the beauty of the human experience lies in its infinite possibilities.

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What's Your Status? Your Guide to HIV Testing in San Francisco

On June 27th, we observe National HIV Testing Day (NHTD) – a day to raise awareness, combat stigma, and encourage everyone to know their HIV status. It's a reminder that early detection and treatment are key to living a long, healthy life, and it's an opportunity to show compassion and support for those living with HIV.

Here in San Francisco, we know firsthand the devastating impact of the 1980s AIDS epidemic. Our community has been touched deeply by loss, but also by incredible resilience and activism. While HIV is no longer the death sentence it once was, testing remains essential for several reasons:

• Early detection saves lives: The sooner you know your status, the sooner you can access treatment and prevent transmitting the virus to others.

• Treatment works: Effective medications can make the virus undetectable and untransmittable, allowing those with HIV to live healthy lives.

• Knowing your status empowers you: Whether positive or negative, knowing your HIV status lets you make informed decisions about your health and relationships.

• Testing fights stigma: Open conversations about HIV testing help to reduce the shame and fear associated with the virus.

Taking the test is a simple act of self-love and taking control of your health. Whether you're a longtime San Franciscan or new to the city, this is a chance to learn about your options, access free or low-cost testing, and prioritize your well-being. Knowing your status empowers you to make informed decisions about your health and your future.

What is HIV & AIDS?

HIV (Human Immunodeficiency Virus) is a virus that attacks the body's immune system, making it harder to fight off infections and diseases. AIDS (Acquired Immunodeficiency Syndrome) is the most advanced stage of HIV infection, where the immune system is severely weakened.

HIV is primarily transmitted through certain bodily fluids, such as blood, semen, vaginal fluids, and breast milk. The most common modes of transmission are unprotected sex and sharing needles or syringes.

If left untreated, HIV can progress to AIDS, leaving the body vulnerable to opportunistic infections and cancers. However, significant advancements in HIV treatment have revolutionized care. Antiretroviral therapy (ART) can suppress the virus to undetectable levels, preventing it from damaging the immune system and virtually eliminating the risk of transmission.

With early detection and consistent treatment, people living with HIV can expect to live long, healthy lives. That's why getting tested and knowing your status is so important.

How to Get Tested for HIV

Test Type	Sample Type	Detection Time	Time to Get Results	Notes
Nucleic Acid Test (NAT)	Blood from vein	10-33 days	A few days to a week	Most sensitive test, detects the virus itself
Antigen/Antibody Test	Blood from finger prick	18-45 days	20-40 minutes or less	Can detect HIV earlier than antibody tests alone
Antibody Test	Blood from finger prick	23-90 days	20-40 minutes or less	Most common type of rapid test
Oral Fluid Test	Swab of gums	23-90 days	20-40 minutes	Often used for initial screening. May require confirmation with a blood test if positive.
At-Home Tests	Blood/Oral fluid	Varies	Rapid Tests: 20 minutes, Mail-In Tests: A few days to a week	Convenient and private option. Follow instructions carefully.

Getting tested for HIV is easier than ever before. A variety of testing options are available, catering to different preferences and needs.

• Blood tests: These are the most common type of HIV test, typically conducted at a clinic or doctor's office. A small blood sample is drawn and sent to a lab for analysis. There are two main types of blood tests:

  • Antibody tests: These detect antibodies produced by the body in response to HIV infection. It can take a few weeks after exposure for these antibodies to be detectable.

  • Antigen/antibody tests: These detect both HIV antibodies and antigens (a part of the virus itself). They can detect HIV sooner after exposure than antibody tests alone.

• Oral fluid tests: Also known as "rapid tests," these use a swab to collect fluid from your gums. Results are typically available within 20-40 minutes. They're often used for initial screening and may require confirmation with a blood test if positive.

• At-home tests: These allow you to collect a sample (either blood from a finger prick or oral fluid) in the privacy of your own home and either mail it to a lab or use a self-test kit with rapid results.

It's important to note that each test has a "window period" – the time between potential exposure and when the test can accurately detect the virus. This varies depending on the type of test:

• Nucleic Acid Tests (NATs): Can detect HIV 10-33 days after exposure.

• Antigen/Antibody Tests: Can detect HIV 18-45 days after exposure.

• Antibody Tests: Can detect HIV 23-90 days after exposure.

If you're worried about the testing process, don't be! Most HIV tests are quick and painless. It's normal to feel some anxiety, but remember, knowing your status is an important step in taking care of your health. If you test positive, there are many resources and treatments available to help you live a healthy and fulfilling life.

Where to Get Tested for HIV in San Francisco

There are plenty of convenient and confidential options for HIV testing in San Francisco, ensuring everyone can access this essential health service.

Clinics

San Francisco City Clinic

Offers free and low-cost HIV on-site lab testing, along with other sexual health services.

Location: 356 7th Street, San Francisco, CA 94103 (between Folsom and Harrison)

Clinic Hours:

• Monday, Wednesday, Friday: 8:00 AM – 4:00 PM

• Tuesday: 1:00 PM – 6:00 PM

• Thursday: 8:00 AM – 11:00 AM and 1:00 PM – 4:00 PM

Walk-ins are also welcome, depending on availability. The clinic is closed on all major holidays.

Magnet

A comprehensive sexual health clinic for gay, bi, and trans men by the San Francisco AIDS Foundation. They offer HIV testing and linkage to care, PrEP services, anal health services, and STI testing and treatment. 

Location: 470 Castro Street, San Francisco, CA 94114

Clinic Hours: Tue–Sat 10-7 pm (Closed from 1-3 pm on Fridays)

Phone: 415-581-1600

Planned Parenthood

Provides HIV testing and counseling, as well as other reproductive and sexual health services.

Location: 1522 Bush Street, San Francisco, CA 94109

Phone: 415-821-1282

San Francisco Community Health Center (SFCHC)

Provides HIV testing along with a wide range of other health services. 

Location: Tenderloin Wellness Clinic, 730 Polk Street, 4th Floor, SF, CA 94109

Phone: Call 415-292-3400 or leave a message at 415-292-3420×301

HealthRight 360's Integrated Care Center

Offers HIV testing, primary care, and other health services for low-income and uninsured individuals.

Location: 1563 Mission Street (2nd & 5th Floors), San Francisco, CA 94103

Phone: 800-200-7181 or (415) 746-1940

Clinic Hours:

• Monday through Friday: 8:30 AM – 12 PM and 1 PM – 5 PM

• Closed for lunch 12:00 PM - 1:00 PM

Community-Based Organizations

El/La Para TransLatinas

Provides HIV prevention and care services specifically for transgender Latinas. 

Location: 3543 18th St, Suite 6, San Francisco, CA 94110

Email: [email protected]

Phone: 415.864.7278

Mission Neighborhood Health Center

Offers HIV testing in San Francisco's Mission District as well as counseling and linkage to care.

Mission Neighborhood Health Center

Location: 240 Shotwell Street, San Francisco, CA 94111
Phone: (415) 431-3212
Hours:

Tuesday & Thursday: 6:00pm – 8:00pm
Friday: 10:00am – 3:00pm

Latino Prevention Center
Location: 1663 Mission Street, Suite 603, San Francisco, CA 94103
Phone: (415) 240-4104
Hours:

Monday & Wednesday: 10:00am – 8:00pm
Tuesday, Thursday, Friday: 10:00am – 5:00pm

Mission Neighborhood Resource Center
Location: 165 Capp Street, San Francisco, CA 94111
Phone: (415) 869-7977
Hours: Monday: 2:00pm – 4:00pm

Home Testing Kits

In addition to in-person locations for HIV testing in San Francisco residents have several options for at-home HIV tests. OraQuick oral swab tests are available at most pharmacies and online, delivering results in 20 minutes. Everlywell offers a variety of at-home tests, including HIV, with results accessible online. Take Me Home also provides free mail-in kits for confidential testing.

What to Do Next

Knowing your HIV status is the first step towards taking control of your health. Whether your test result is positive or negative, there are important actions to take:

If You Test Positive

• Linkage to Care: Getting connected to an HIV care provider promptly is crucial. Early initiation of treatment can significantly improve health outcomes and reduce the risk of transmission. San Francisco offers specialized HIV clinics and providers, such as Ward 86 at Zuckerberg San Francisco General Hospital, the UCSF HIV/AIDS Program, and the HIV/AIDS Program at San Francisco Community Health Center (SFCHC).

• Support and Counseling: Many organizations in San Francisco offer counseling and support services to help you navigate the emotional and practical aspects of living with HIV. The San Francisco AIDS Foundation offers comprehensive support services, including counseling, case management, and support groups. Additionally, organizations like Shanti Project, the API Wellness Center, and the Latino Prevention Center provide culturally sensitive counseling and support tailored to specific communities.

• Prevention for Partners: If you are in a relationship, talk openly with your partner(s) and take steps to prevent transmission. This can include using condoms consistently, taking PrEP (pre-exposure prophylaxis) if you are HIV-negative, and discussing options like U=U (Undetectable = Untransmittable).

If You Test Negative

• Prevention is Key: Explore prevention options like PrEP (pre-exposure prophylaxis), a daily medication that can significantly reduce the risk of HIV acquisition. You can obtain PrEP through clinics like Magnet, the San Francisco City Clinic, or your healthcare provider.

• Regular Testing: If you are sexually active, consider getting tested regularly (every 3-6 months) to maintain awareness of your status. This can be done at clinics, community organizations, or with at-home testing kits.
  Safer Sex Practices: Consistent condom use and other safer sex practices remain essential for protecting yourself and your partners.

No matter your results, open communication with sexual partners and healthcare providers is crucial for maintaining your health and well-being. Don't hesitate to ask questions, seek support, and take the necessary steps to protect yourself and others.

Get tested ASAP!

Getting tested for HIV is not just a matter of individual health; it's a community responsibility. By knowing our status, we can protect ourselves and our partners, stop the spread of the virus, and ultimately work towards ending the HIV epidemic.

Don't let fear or stigma hold you back. Talk to your doctor, visit a clinic, or order a home testing kit today. It's a simple, quick, and confidential process that can empower you to take charge of your health.

Let's normalize conversations about HIV and testing. By openly discussing this topic with our friends, families, and loved ones, we create a supportive community and break down the stigma that still surrounds HIV.

If you're living with HIV, know that you are not alone. San Francisco is home to a vast network of support, from medical care to counseling services and community groups. Reach out, get the help you deserve, and remember: living with HIV does not define you. With early detection and access to care, you can live a long, fulfilling, and joyful life.

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30 Days of Pride: LGBTQ+ Movies to Celebrate Pride Month

While parades and parties are a fantastic way to celebrate Pride Month, there's another way to connect with our vibrant LGBTQ+ community: through the magic of LGBTQ+ movies. Join us for a month-long marathon celebrating queer lives in all their joy, resilience, and complexity! From heartwarming romances to side-splitting comedies, historical dramas to cutting-edge documentaries, each film offers a window into the lives, struggles, and triumphs of LGBTQ+ individuals.

And to truly immerse yourself in queer cinema, be sure to check out Frameline, the San Francisco International LGBTQ+ Film Festival, happening this Pride from June 19th to 29th! Read here for other ways to celebrate Pride Month in San Francisco.

Now, settle in and get comfortable— our Pride movie list is packed with 30 LGBTQ+ movies and documentaries we've handpicked for you to watch this June:

Milk (2008)

You've probably heard of Harvey Milk, the groundbreaking gay rights activist and politician, but did you know his story is deeply intertwined with the San Francisco Gay Men's Chorus? On the very night Harvey Milk was assassinated, the newly formed Chorus was singing Mendelssohn's "Thou, Lord our Refuge" at their first public performance, marking a poignant beginning for the organization.

This biographical drama, starring Sean Penn in an Oscar-winning performance, gives you an intimate look at Milk's life, his unwavering fight for equality, and the tragic events that cut his journey short.

The SFGMC continues to honor Milk's legacy, most notably through our moving choral work, "I Am Harvey Milk." This powerful film reminds us that while progress has been made, Milk's fight for equality is far from over, and he will forever remain an integral part of our story. A must-watch, especially for any San Franciscan!

Tangerine (2015)

Buckle up for a wild ride through the underbelly of Los Angeles with two transgender sex workers on a mission. This LGBTQ+ film isn't afraid to get gritty, and it's all shot on iPhones! It's a raw, funny, and surprisingly heartwarming look at friendship, loyalty, and living life on your own terms.

Bottoms (2023)

High school awkwardness meets fight club in this raunchy comedy that's sure to make you laugh out loud. Two unpopular queer girls start a fight club to, well, meet girls – and the chaos that ensues is hilarious. This film is a fresh and unapologetic celebration of female friendship and the power of being yourself.

Happy Together (1997)

This one's for the hopeless romantics – and by that, I mean those of us who love a good, messy love story. Directed by the acclaimed Wong Kar-wai, this film follows a gay couple whose roller coaster relationship takes them from Hong Kong all the way to Argentina. Get ready for some serious wanderlust vibes, breathtaking cinematography, and a whole lot of emotional ups and downs. It's a beautiful and heartbreaking journey, exploring love in all its complexities.

Badhaai Do (2022)

Ever heard of a lavender marriage? This Bollywood comedy-drama tackles the complexities of a gay man and a lesbian woman navigating a marriage of convenience in India. It's a witty and touching look at finding love and acceptance, all while shedding light on the challenges faced by LGBTQ+ individuals in a conservative society.

Moonlight (2016)

This Oscar-winning LGBTQ+ movie is a masterpiece you'll never forget. With its simple yet brilliant plot, the story unfolds in three chapters, each more emotionally powerful than the last. We follow Chiron's journey from a young boy struggling with his identity, to a teen grappling with love and heartache, to a man finally facing his truth. The acting is raw and authentic, and the film's score is a haunting and beautiful accompaniment to this moving story.

All About My Mother (1999)

Pedro Almodóvar knows how to tell a story, and this one is a wild ride. One of his most beloved films, All About My Mother is a heartfelt and hilarious look at a mother's journey through grief, unexpected connections, and the resilience of women. There's a whole cast of unforgettable characters – trans women, nuns, actresses – and a whole lot of drama, but it's all worth it.

The Handmaiden (2016)

Set in 1930s Japanese-occupied Korea, the story unfolds as a young pickpocket is hired as a handmaiden to a wealthy heiress. However, their initial deception soon gives way to a passionate affair filled with twists and turns. The film's breathtaking visuals, captivating performances, and intricate plot will keep you guessing until the very end.

The Adventures of Priscilla, Queen of the Desert (1994)

Grab your feather boas and platform heels! This Australian classic is a road trip movie with a whole lot of heart. Follow two drag queens and a transgender woman as they travel across the Outback in their flamboyant bus, Priscilla. It's a celebration of friendship, finding yourself, and living life out loud – plus, the costumes are iconic and the soundtrack is pure disco gold.

The Normal Heart (2014)

This powerful drama takes us back to the early days of the AIDS epidemic in New York City. It's a heart-wrenching look at the struggle for recognition, activism in the face of loss, and the deep bonds formed in a community facing crisis. This LGBTQ+ movie is not an easy watch, but it's an essential one, reminding us of the power of love and resilience in the face of adversity.

But I'm a Cheerleader (1999)

A campy cult classic for a reason, 'But I'm a Cheerleader' is a satirical take on those awful conversion therapy camps, following a cheerleader (played by Natasha Lyonne) who's sent away to be "fixed." Let's just say it doesn't go as planned. The bright colors and over-the-top characters are hilarious, but it also has a lot of heart and a message of self-acceptance that still rings true today.

Disclosure (2020)

Ever wondered how Hollywood's portrayal of trans people has evolved over time? This eye-opening documentary takes a deep dive into that complex history, showing both the damaging stereotypes and the moments where we finally started seeing ourselves on screen. Disclosure will make you think and challenge everything you thought you knew about representation in movies and TV.

Happiest Season (2020)

It's the most wonderful time of the year...to come out to your family, right? This holiday rom-com follows a lesbian couple as they navigate the festive chaos of family gatherings and the challenges of keeping their relationship a secret. It's full of laughs, a few tears, and a whole lot of holiday cheer – with a queer twist.

God's Own Country (2017)

Trade the sunshine for the stark beauty of the Yorkshire moors in this British drama. A young, lonely farmer finds a profound connection with a Romanian migrant worker. Their love story unfolds against a backdrop of harsh landscapes and even harsher realities, but it's a reminder that even in the bleakest of circumstances, love can find a way. It's a slow burn, but the payoff is worth it.

The Watermelon Woman (1996)

This groundbreaking film is a must-watch for anyone interested in queer history and representation. It's a documentary-style story about a young Black lesbian filmmaker who sets out to uncover the truth about a forgotten Black actress from the 1930s. It's witty, thought-provoking, and a reminder of the importance of telling our own stories.

120 BPM (2017)

This French drama throws you right into the heart of ACT UP Paris, a group of activists fighting tooth and nail for recognition and treatment during the AIDS crisis. It's not just about protests and politics, though. It's about the raw emotion, the friendships, and the fierce love that fueled a movement. This film is a powerful reminder that our rights were hard-won, and it honors the heroes who fought for a better future.

La Cage aux Folles (1978)

Another French classic, La Cage aux Folles is pure comedic gold! It's about a gay couple running a drag club who have to pretend to be straight when their son brings home his fiancée and her conservative parents. The hilarious chaos that ensues is both heartwarming and laugh-out-loud funny. If you prefer English, check out "The Birdcage" (1996), a star-studded remake with Robin Williams and Nathan Lane that's just as fabulous.

Rafiki (2018)

This Kenyan film tells the vibrant yet forbidden love story of two young women, Kena and Ziki, whose fathers are political rivals. Despite facing harsh realities in a society where their relationship is illegal, their love for each other blossoms. The film is a testament to resilience, hope, and the universal yearning for connection amidst adversity.

Paris is Burning (1990)

This iconic LGBTQ+ documentary transports you to the underground ballroom scene of 1980s New York City. It's a captivating look at Black and Latinx queer and trans communities, where voguing, fierce competition, and chosen family were a refuge from a hostile world. It's a must-watch for anyone who wants to understand the roots of drag culture and the resilience of marginalized communities.

Pride (2014)

Based on a true story, this British film is a heartwarming and often hilarious tale of unlikely solidarity forged during the turbulent UK miners' strike in the 1980s. When a group of LGBTQ+ activists in London decides to raise money for the striking miners, they face resistance from the union itself. Undeterred, they reach out directly to a small Welsh mining village, building bridges of understanding and friendship across cultural divides.

Brokeback Mountain (2005)

Get the tissues ready, because this one's a heartbreaker. This iconic film tells the story of two cowboys who fall in love in 1960s Wyoming, a time and place where their love was forbidden. Heath Ledger and Jake Gyllenhaal deliver unforgettable performances as Ennis and Jack, two men grappling with their forbidden desires against the stunning backdrop of the American West. Did you know that the iconic "I wish I knew how to quit you" line was improvised by Ledger? It's a testament to the raw emotion he poured into this role.

To Wong Foo, Thanks for Everything! Julie Newmar (1995)

Buckle up for a hilarious cross-country adventure! When two glamorous New York City drag queens, Vida (Patrick Swayze) and Noxeema (Wesley Snipes), win a trip to Hollywood for a national drag competition, they decide to bring along a struggling newcomer, Chi-Chi (John Leguizamo). Their journey takes an unexpected detour when their car breaks down in a small rural town, where they find themselves teaching the locals about acceptance, self-love, and the transformative power of drag.

Paris 05:59: Théo & Hugo (2016)

This French film isn't for the faint of heart, but it's a raw and intimate portrayal of a whirlwind romance between two men. It's set over the course of a single night, following their encounter at a sex club through the streets of Paris. It's honest, erotic, and an exploration of the unexpected journeys that love can take us on.

Flee (2021)

Flee is an animated LGBTQ+ documentary that tells the extraordinary true story of a gay Afghan refugee named Amin. Fleeing from his war-torn homeland, he embarks on a perilous journey to find safety and a place to call home. It's beautifully animated, deeply moving, and reminds us of the resilience of the human spirit. A must-watch for anyone seeking a unique and emotional cinematic experience.

Bound (1996)

Think "Thelma and Louise" but make it queer...and even more thrilling. This stylish neo-noir follows Violet, a mobster's girlfriend, and Corky, an ex-con who just got out of prison. Their passionate affair sparks a dangerous plan to steal millions from the mob and escape their circumstances. With its sizzling chemistry, nail-biting suspense, and clever twists, Bound is a must-see for anyone who loves a good crime thriller with a healthy dose of lesbian romance.

Portrait of a Lady on Fire (2019)

This French film is a visual masterpiece. It's a slow-burning love story set in the 18th century about a female painter commissioned to create a portrait of a young woman who is about to be married off. As they spend time together, a forbidden love blossoms. This LGBTQ+ movie is a quiet, intimate, and achingly beautiful exploration of desire, artistry, and the power of connection.

Fire Island (2022)

If you love Pride and Prejudice but wish it had more shirtless guys and way more laughs, then Fire Island is the movie for you! This modern rom-com reimagines Jane Austen's classic tale in the heart of the Fire Island Pines gay scene. Expect witty banter, steamy hookups, and a whole lot of drama (and maybe a karaoke session or two). Plus, it's got an all-star cast of comedians and actors who'll have you cackling all the way through.

A Single Man (2009)

Colin Firth delivers a stunning performance as George, a gay professor grieving the loss of his partner in 1960s Los Angeles. Directed by fashion icon Tom Ford, this visually elegant film captures the beauty in everyday moments and explores themes of love, loss, and finding purpose in a world that can feel isolating.

Love, Simon (2018)

Coming out can be tough, but this heartwarming teen rom-com reminds us that it's also a journey of self-discovery and finding your people. This heartwarming teen rom-com follows Simon, a closeted gay high schooler who falls for an anonymous classmate online. As he tries to figure out who his mystery crush is, he navigates the ups and downs of first love, coming out, and the importance of staying true to yourself. It's a sweet, relatable story that'll leave you feeling all warm and fuzzy inside.

We Were Here (2011)

This powerful documentary takes you back to the harrowing early days of the 1980 AIDS cris in San Francisco. Through the eyes of five individuals who lived through it – activists, survivors, caregivers – you'll get a glimpse into the fear, loss, and resilience that defined that era. It's a moving tribute to those we lost and a testament to the strength of the LGBTQ+ community in the face of unimaginable challenges.

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This Pride Month, let's celebrate the power of storytelling, the resilience of our community, and the beauty of love in all its forms. We invite you to explore these 30 LGBTQ+ movies, to laugh, cry, and connect with the diverse experiences that have shaped our past, present, and future. As you immerse yourself in these stories, remember that each film is a testament to the strength, creativity, and unwavering spirit of the LGBTQ+ community. Let these films inspire you, challenge you, and remind you that you are not alone. Happy Pride! 🏳️‍🌈

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The Impact of Gay Men's Choruses

Choral music boasts a long and storied history. From soaring cathedral hymns to the intricate harmonies of Renaissance masterpieces, the human voice united in song holds a timeless power. However, the emergence of gay men's choirs represents a distinct and vital chapter within this tradition. These aren't simply groups of men who happen to be gay and love to sing. They are spaces forged in the fires of adversity, where LGBTQ+ men have raised their voices in defiance, found solace in shared melodies, and transformed their individual talents into a collective force for change.

The San Francisco Gay Men's Chorus (SFGMC) stands as the cornerstone of this movement. Founded in 1978, the AIDS epidemic was ravaging the gay community. Loss, fear, and the desperate need for connection fueled SFGMC's creation. These men weren't just gathering to perform; they were building a sanctuary where their voices – in all their joy, vulnerability, and determination – could resonate freely. The very act of openly proclaiming their identities at that specific moment in history was revolutionary.

Over the decades, countless similar choirs have taken root across the globe. While each carries its own unique story, they all share a common thread. They are more than simply musical ensembles - they are powerful vehicles for personal empowerment, community building, and a symbol of the resilience of the LGBTQ+ movement.

What is the history of gay men's chorus?

The roots of the gay men's chorus stretch back to 1978, a period of immense darkness for the city's gay community. The AIDS epidemic unleashed a wave of devastation, fueling widespread stigma and leaving countless individuals consumed by grief and fear. Yet, even amidst this crisis, a powerful act of defiance and hope took shape. The San Francisco Gay Men's Chorus or SFGMC was born. Its first rehearsal attracting men from all walks of life, united by a yearning for connection and a belief in the power of music to heal and uplift.

The act of these men joining voices and openly declaring themselves as gay was, in itself, a radical act. They weren't simply seeking an artistic endeavor, they were claiming space. The chorus became a refuge where they could process their shared trauma, celebrate their identities, and quite literally sing their joy even in the face of immense pain.

As the AIDS crisis continued, gay men's choirs began to emerge in cities across America and later, the world. Inspired by SFGMC's courage, these groups reflected a shared need to build communities of support in places where LGBTQ+ individuals often felt isolated and ostracized. The act of singing together offered a sense of camaraderie and shared purpose, fostering friendships and support systems that extended far beyond rehearsals and concerts.

In 1982, recognizing the power of working together, SFGMC helped found GALA Choruses. This international network now includes over 190 LGBTQ+ choirs across the globe. It has been vital for sharing resources, offering mutual support, and creating a sense of solidarity that transcends borders.

The Power of Collective Voice

From their earliest performances, gay men's choirs like SFGMC understood the power of visibility. In a society that often tried to erase or demonize LGBTQ+ people, these men took to the stage, refusing to be silenced. 

Performing in mainstream concert halls, churches, and civic spaces, they challenged stereotypes and forced audiences to confront their own preconceptions. For many, it was the first time they'd encountered openly gay men who were proud, talented, and defying narrow definitions of how men "should" be.

Their voices carried far beyond mere entertainment. Gay men's choirs often championed songs centered on themes of love, loss, resilience, and the fight for LGBTQ+ liberation. Their concerts became spaces where the community found strength and joy, but also a platform for raising awareness and challenging prejudice.

Advocacy has always been inextricably linked to their artistic mission. Throughout the ongoing HIV/AIDS crisis, these choirs have used their platform to raise vital funds and provide support. Their activism extends to broader LGBTQ+ causes, lending their voices to rallies, lobbying policymakers, and using performances to highlight pressing social justice issues.

Their impact reaches far beyond the main stage. Many choruses have developed innovative outreach programs to empower different segments of the LGBTQ+ community and foster alliances:

• SFGMC's RHYTHM program offers LGBTQ+ youth a chance to explore their creativity, build community, and discover the transformative power of music.

• The New York City Gay Men's Chorus created the Youth Pride Chorus, providing a safe and nurturing environment for LGBTQ+ youth to express themselves through song.

• The Gay Men's Chorus of Washington DC offers a wide range of outreach programs, including support groups for LGBTQ+ people living with HIV/AIDS, initiatives addressing mental health, and programs serving LGBTQ+ seniors.

• The Gay Men's Chorus of Los Angeles (GMCLA) runs the Alive Music Project (AMP) and is a member of Arts For Healing & Justice, bringing music education to underserved communities and engaging in arts-based advocacy.

• The Philadelphia Gay Men’s Chorus's Youth Engagement Program connects with LGBTQ+ youth through school workshops and mentorship opportunities.
  

  These are just a few examples, demonstrating how gay men's choirs are making a difference in communities across the country.

Artistic Innovation

Gay men's choirs have always pushed beyond simply replicating traditional choral standards. Their repertoire is a unique and vibrant mix, often featuring newly commissioned works that directly speak to the complexities of LGBTQ+ lives. These pieces tackle themes of love, heartbreak, coming out, battling discrimination, and celebrating chosen families – stories rarely found in traditional choral literature. By supporting emerging LGBTQ+ composers and lyricists, these choirs foster artistic voices that might otherwise be marginalized.

Their influence has rippled outward, impacting the broader world of choral music. They've challenged the notion that choral performances need to be staid, incorporating theatricality, choreography, and humor into their shows. Their willingness to push stylistic boundaries and break away from purely classical music has made the genre more accessible to younger audiences and those who might not have considered themselves choral music fans.

One of the most powerful indicators of their artistic achievements is their growing number of collaborations with mainstream institutions. Gay men's choirs have performed alongside major symphony orchestras, renowned opera singers, and pop stars. These collaborations not only showcase their musical talent but also help normalize LGBTQ+ voices and stories within spaces that may have once seemed exclusionary.

Impact on Individual Lives

The power of gay men's choirs extends far beyond the notes on the page. Ask any member, and they'll likely tell you it changed their lives. For many, it became a lifeline during periods of isolation or personal struggle. The camaraderie, the shared joy of creating music together, and the knowledge that you are surrounded by people who understand your experiences create an unshakeable bond.

It's not simply about singing. The friendships formed within gay men's choirs become vital support systems. Members offer each other help through difficult times, celebrate milestones, and form lifelong bonds that go far beyond rehearsals. This sense of chosen family is precious, especially for those who may have faced rejection from their biological families due to their sexuality.

Recognizing that the fight for full LGBTQ+ inclusion isn't over, many choirs have evolved to become even more welcoming. They are increasingly reaching out to singers across the gender spectrum and actively working to be spaces where all LGBTQ+ people feel valued and safe. Additionally, these choirs are fostering connections with allies outside the community, demonstrating that their music and their message resonate with anyone willing to open their hearts and minds.

From Audience to Advocate

The story of gay men's choirs is deeply intertwined with the fight for LGBTQ+ rights. Their songs do more than entertain; they offer solace, spark conversations, and challenge long-held prejudices. These choirs emerged out of a need for connection and spaces of self-expression, and they continue to evolve to provide that sense of belonging.

While the world has changed since those first groups formed, the need for these communities hasn't disappeared. These choirs remain a beacon of hope, reminding us that our collective voices hold power.

If their story resonates with you, don't just be a passive listener. Seek out a gay men's chorus in your area. Support their work, experience the energy of their performances, or if you share their passion for singing, explore becoming a part of that vibrant community. Join the legacy, and help ensure their chorus of voices grows stronger with each passing year.

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7 LGBTQ Songs that Should be on Your 2024 Pride Playlist

Pride Month is in full swing, and it's time for a Pride playlist that matches the energy! Music has always been the heartbeat of the LGBTQ+ community. It helps us find our voice, celebrate who we are, and remind us that we belong. 

Lately, we've been blessed with incredible artists breaking through – and these fresh LGBTQ songs prove it. These new tracks are bold, they're joyful… poignant… everything Pride should be.

There's still work to be done, but these songs are a sign that our voices are getting louder. So, let's turn up the volume and dive into the newest anthems that have us feeling proud and ready to take on the world. We'll unpack their messages, their beats, and why they make us want to celebrate everything that makes our community so special.

Unholy by Sam Smith & Kim Petras

Bold, defiant, and unapologetically sexy, "Unholy" is a celebration of self-expression and shaking off the shackles of societal expectations. For LGBTQ+ folks constantly pressured to conform to traditional norms around gender and sexuality, this song is a battle cry and therefore deserves a space in your 2024 pride playlist. 

Sam Smith, openly non-binary, and Kim Petras, a history-making trans woman, topping the charts with a song that revels in rejecting the mainstream sends a powerful message: not only are we here, but we refuse to be silenced. It's the type of visibility and representation that fuels hope and defiance within the LGBTQ+ community.

Vulgar by Sam Smith & Madonna

Another Sam Smith in the list! This fierce collaboration between two pop icons is an unapologetic anthem of self-empowerment and embracing your inner "vulgar." With lyrics like "Vulgar is beautiful, filthy, and gorgeous," this track rejects societal norms and celebrates being unapologetically yourself. 

It's a powerful reminder that you don't need anyone's approval to be confident and express yourself freely. This bold and empowering track is a must-add to any pride playlist.

This Hell by Rina Sawayama

Rina Sawayama's "This Hell" is an electrifying pop-country fusion anthem that reclaims the narrative of damnation and turns it into a celebration of queer resilience. Inspired by the relentless attacks on the LGBTQ+ community, Sawayama defiantly embraces the idea of hell, declaring that it's "better with you."

The song's lyrics are a bold middle finger to those who try to shame queer people for simply being themselves. Sawayama sings about dancing with the devil, walking on coals, and facing eternal damnation with unwavering pride. It's a rallying cry for the LGBTQ+ community and a reminder that even in the face of hate and discrimination, we can find joy and community with each other. Follow Rina's instagram account and show your support!

Windows by Jake Wesley Rogers

Jake Wesley Rogers' "Windows" offers a beautiful message of unwavering support for someone struggling. Sometimes love means being there when relationships are difficult, or during the painful process of self-discovery. The promise to "build you a window" speaks to offering a lifeline, a glimmer of hope even in the darkest times. 

If you have ever felt alone or misunderstood, this song is a powerful reminder that there are people who see you, love you as you are, and will be there to help you see the light again. Support this up-and-coming artist and check out Jake's music on Spotify.

Stacy's brother by Mad Tsai

You've definitely heard of Stacy's Mom, but have you heard of Stacy's brother? Mad Tsai's catchy indie-pop song "stacy's brother" is a playful and relatable anthem for anyone who's ever had a crush on their friend's sibling. The song captures the excitement and nervousness of young love with its upbeat melody and relatable lyrics. Mad Tsai, an openly queer artist, brings a fresh perspective to the classic trope, making "stacy's brother" a must-add to any pride playlist celebrating young love and self-discovery.

The Code" by Nemo 

Switzerland's Eurovision 2024 entry, "The Code" by the non-binary artist Nemo, is an electrifying anthem of self-discovery and breaking free from societal expectations. The song's powerful drum and bass beats and soaring vocals create an exhilarating soundscape that captures the euphoria of embracing one's true identity. 

Nemo's lyrics speak to the challenges and triumphs of the LGBTQ+ experience, encouraging listeners to challenge the status quo and rewrite their own narratives. "The Code" is a powerful reminder that there are no rules when it comes to being yourself.

Rush by Troye Sivan

Troye Sivan's "Rush", with its yearning for connection and the bittersweet ache of desire, resonates strongly within the LGBTQ+ experience. The search for love, especially while navigating one's own identity, can be full of exhilarating highs and crushing lows. 

The song's sense of urgency and longing mirrors the internal rush so many LGBTQ+ folks have felt at some point – that desperate search for someone who not only sees you but celebrates the messy, beautiful, authentic you. Plus, Sivan's openness about his sexuality makes it all the more poignant, reflecting an experience that many queer listeners can intimately understand.

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Anthems aren't created overnight. They evolve from shared experiences, from the powerful emotions that music ignites within us. Listening to these LGBTQ songs fills us with pride, and it's exciting to think of how they'll add to our ever-evolving pride playlist. 

They capture where we are, celebrate where we've been, and give us the energy to keep fighting for the future we deserve. The fight isn't over, and the music that will score our journey is still out there waiting to be written.

So, what kind of pride anthems do you want to hear next? What messages need amplifying? Which new artists are ready to break down barriers? Share your thoughts in the comments. 

Let's uplift the voices that speak our truths and keep building a collection of gay pride songs that fuel our joy, our resilience, and our unwavering push for full LGBTQ+ liberation.

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Must-See Music Events this Pride Month in San Francisco

As a pioneer in LGBTQ+ rights, San Francisco sets the stage for a truly extraordinary Pride celebration. As one of the birthplaces of the modern LGBTQ+ rights movement, the city holds a special place in queer history. Its rich legacy of activism and self-expression is woven deeply into the cultural fabric, creating an unmatched atmosphere for experiencing Pride.

This Pride Month in San Francisco, fill your calendar – and your heart – with the power of music! The Bay Area boasts a thriving arts scene, and there's no shortage of ways to celebrate Pride with song. From joyful choral concerts to extravagant operas and live music, the sounds of San Francisco pride celebration will resonate all across the city. 

Beyond the San Francisco Pride Parade, here are a few of our top-pick Pride events in San Francisco throughout June – selections we think our community would especially enjoy:

The Magic Flute

By Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart

May 30-June 30, 2024

War Memorial Opera House

🏳‍🌈 Pride Night is Wednesday, June 26

Opera lovers with a passion for LGBTQ+ themes and timeless music will find much to adore in Mozart's enchanting masterpiece, "The Magic Flute." This whimsical production reimagines the classic fairy tale quest through a playful, vintage lens. Journey alongside unlikely heroes as they navigate a world of magic and seek love and wisdom. 

The production's Pride Night performance aligns perfectly with the celebratory spirit of the month. Mozart's sublime score, conducted by Eun Sun Kim, promises a musically and emotionally fulfilling experience this Pride Month in San Francisco. 

Everybody's Talking About Jamie

Dates: May 31st - June 23rd, 2024

Venue: The Victoria Theatre

Inspired by a true story, "Everybody's Talking About Jamie" is the hit musical sensation celebrating individuality and self-acceptance. Follow Jamie, a 16-year-old with dreams of becoming a drag queen, as he navigates school, friendships, and finding his true self. With its catchy pop score, infectious energy, and heartwarming message, this show is the perfect way to celebrate Pride Month and embrace the power of being your authentic self.

Serpentwithfeet

Thursday, June 6th

Doors: 7:30pm | Show: 8:00pm

The Independent

Experience the genre-bending music of  Serpentwithfeet – an avant-garde vocalist and performance artist whose work explores themes of identity and expression. His journey as a black, gay artist shines through in his emotionally resonant music. Support queer artistry and discover something truly unique at this show. Get your tickets here. 

Our Favorite Things: An SFGMC Ensembles Show

Featuring The Lollipop Guild & HomoPhonics

June 7th

It's a truly delightful evening of choral music showcasing the SFGMC's talented ensembles on June 7th at The Chan!  "Our Favorite Things" features the beloved Lollipop Guild and HomoPhonics performing their favorite songs from past years and exciting previews of their 2024 GALA Festival of Choruses sets. 

Janet Jackson & Nelly: Together Again Tour

Wednesday, June 12th, 2024

Chase Center | 8 pm

Prepare for a night of nostalgia and unforgettable hits as Janet Jackson brings her "Together Again" Tour to the Chase Center, joined by iconic rapper Nelly. Celebrate Jackson's 50th anniversary in entertainment and her groundbreaking albums,  "The Velvet Rope," "janet," and "Rhythm Nation."  Expect a hit-packed setlist and a high-energy show, plus nostalgic highlights from Nelly's chart-topping career. This June event in San Francisco is a must-see for any fan of 90s and 2000s music!

Partenope By George Frideric Handel

DATES: June 15th-28th, 2024

SF Opera House

Step into the glamour of the 1920s with a touch of comedic chaos! Handel's "Partenope" offers a delightful mix of romance, rivalry, and unforgettable music. Witness the hilarious antics of a sought-after bachelorette and her lovestruck suitors in this Olivier award-winning production. 

Expect dazzling costumes, witty humor, and the timeless beauty of Handel's masterful score, conducted by the renowned Christopher Moulds. Opera fans seeking a light-hearted and musically exquisite experience will find this perfect for Pride celebrations.

San Francisco Gay Men's Chorus: All We Need Is Love

In collaboration with the San Francisco Symphony

June 18th, 2024 | Davies Symphony Hall

Immerse yourself in a symphony of love with this unforgettable collaboration between the SFGMC and the San Francisco Symphony this Pride Month in San Francisco. "All We Need Is Love" is a heartfelt tribute to the power of love in all its forms. Experience the romance, joy, and enduring spirit of love through a tapestry of timeless ballads, modern anthems, and stunning orchestral arrangements.  Join us for an evening of musical magic, uplifting inspiration, and a celebration of the universal language of love.

The Cher Show

June 18th-23rd, 2024

Curran Theatre | 445 Geary St. San Francisco, CA 94102

Celebrate Pride with a true icon! "The Cher Show" is a glittering, over-the-top musical extravaganza chronicling the legendary career of Cher. Relive six decades of hit songs, unforgettable outfits, and the unstoppable spirit that made her a superstar.  With three actresses portraying Cher at different stages of her life, this show captures the essence of her boldness and enduring appeal. It's going to be a dazzling, fun-filled night as you experience the magic of Cher, a true LGBTQ+ ally and timeless inspiration.

Thelma and the Sleaze

Thursday, June 20th, 2024 | Doors 8pm / Show 9pm

El Rio

Thelma and the Sleaze, the all-female queer band led by the powerhouse LG, bring their fiery southern rock sound to San Francisco.  LG's gritty vocals, blistering guitar, and fearless attitude embody a much-needed return to rock's rebellious roots. 

This is a show for those who crave visceral energy, a touch of defiance, and a whole lot of good old-fashioned fun. Plus, fans of  LG's hit podcast, "Queen of Shit Mountain", won't want to miss her dynamic live performance. Click here for tickets.

FELLOW TRAVELERS - The Opera

June 21-23, 2024

You saw the series, now see the opera! Produced by Opera Parallèle, this riveting opera adaptation of Thomas Mallon's novel is set against the backdrop of McCarthy-era America and the Lavender Scare. Exploring the clandestine romance between two men amid the political turmoil of the era, Fellow Travelers offers a poignant reflection on love, loyalty, and the consequences of living in a society gripped by fear.  Special opening night June 21!! Pre-show conversation with author Thomas Mallon and librettist Greg Pierce. Get tickets here: operaparallele.org/fellowtravelers

EVITA

June 27th - September 7th, 2024

San Francisco Playhouse

Experience the iconic musical that defined a generation! "Evita" tells the captivating story of Eva Peron, a complex and controversial figure who rose from humble beginnings to become a powerful force in Argentinian politics. With its sweeping score by Andrew Lloyd Webber and Tim Rice, including the unforgettable "Don't Cry For Me Argentina," this Tony-winning musical explores themes of ambition, power, and social change. Get ready to be swept away by the drama, passion, and enduring legacy of Eva Peron.

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Pride Month in San Francisco is about more than just the joyous parade, the rainbow flags, and street parties (though those are awesome!).  It's a chance to dive deeper, celebrating the immense contributions of the LGBTQ+ community to the arts.  From iconic operas to boundary-pushing musical theatre to the raw energy of independent music, there's something sonically spectacular for everyone within San Francisco's vibrant arts scene.

So, as you build your Pride Month calendar, leave space for a show, a concert, or musical event. Support queer artists, amplify diverse voices, and let the power of music ignite your Pride spirit. 

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9 LGBT Straight Ally Music Artists Supporting the Community

Throughout history, the most significant victories for social justice have been won through solidarity. From the Civil Rights Movement to the fight for women's suffrage to the global struggle against apartheid, collective action has proven essential for progress. The fight for LGBTQIA+ rights is no different, and music has played an integral role in propelling this movement forward. 

Songs have become anthems of defiance, sources of comfort in dark times, and vibrant soundtracks to celebrations of hard-won progress.  From the defiant pulse of underground clubs in the Stonewall era to anthems blasting from Pride parade floats, music has been a constant companion in the LGBTQIA+  journey.

While the voices of LGBTQIA+ artists sharing their lived experiences are essential, the power of allyship is undeniable. Today, many LGBT straight ally artists are raising their voices in support. They use their platforms to challenge prejudice, amplify queer stories, and passionately demand equality. 

This is the kind of support that makes a tangible difference. We need people beyond our community to understand our struggles, stand beside us, and use their voices to fight for our rights.

Why? Because the fight for LGBTQIA+ rights is a fight for basic human dignity. It's about creating a world where everyone, regardless of who they love or how they identify, feels safe, respected, and free to live authentically. 

When those with privilege use it to advocate for the marginalized people, it sends a powerful message that our fight for equality won't be silenced. It creates momentum, shifts social norms, and builds a more just future for everyone.

What is an Ally?

An ally is someone who actively supports and advocates for a marginalized group that they are not a part of.  In the context of LGBTQIA+ rights, an ally is a cisgender and heterosexual person who demonstrates a commitment to fighting for the equality and well-being of the lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, intersex, asexual, and other  LGBTQIA+ communities. Here's what being an LGBT straight ally looks like:

• Ongoing Learning: Allies recognize they can never fully understand the experiences of being LGBTQIA+ in a society built on heteronormativity.  They actively seek out information from queer voices, listen without defensiveness, and are willing to have their assumptions challenged.

• Action Beyond Words: A true ally does not just say they care about equality – they take steps to make it a reality. This can range from confronting homophobic comments in their daily lives to donating to LGBTQIA+ organizations.

• Amplifying Queer Voices: Allies understand the power of their privilege. They use their platforms to uplift LGBTQIA+ individuals, sharing their stories and making sure that they are not alone.

Here are some of the most outspoken and active allies of the LGBTQ+ community in the music industry throughout the years:

Cher

Cher's connection to the LGBTQIA+ community runs deep. Her flamboyant style, embrace of camp aesthetics, and powerful anthems of resilience made her an early icon for queer fans seeking self-expression outside societal norms. 

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But Cher is far more than a symbol. When her daughter, Chastity, came out as a transgender person and transitioned to Chaz Bono, Cher's public support journey was groundbreaking. This brought trans visibility to mainstream audiences in a compassionate, personal way. 

Throughout her career, Cher has also been a vocal advocate, championing LGBTQIA+ equality and challenging discrimination at every turn. Her outspokenness on LGBTQIA+ issues amplifies the work of advocacy organizations and makes her a beloved figure within the community.

Madonna

Madonna's impact on the LGBTQIA+ community is undeniable. From the early days of her career, her celebration of sexual liberation and boundary-pushing performances created a space for queer self-expression within mainstream pop culture. Madonna never took her LGBTQIA+ fans for granted, building a loyal following by consistently weaving queer themes into her music, visuals, and live shows. 

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At the height of the AIDS epidemic in the 80s and 90s, Madonna used her celebrity to raise awareness, combat stigma, and push for research funding at a time when many were silent.  Importantly, Madonna's support hasn't just been rooted in the past. She continues to speak out on issues like trans rights and collaborates with contemporary LGBTQIA+ artists, ensuring her legacy remains resonant with new generations of queer fans.

Lady Gaga

From her earliest hits, Lady Gaga has been a fierce champion of the LGBTQIA+ community, empowering fans to celebrate their unique identities with pride.  Her music often tackles themes of self-acceptance and battling societal expectations, anthems that have resonated deeply with queer listeners around the world. 

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Her activism goes beyond words – the Born This Way Foundation, which she co-founded with her mother, focuses on empowering young people and fostering kinder, braver communities with a strong emphasis on LGBTQIA+ mental wellness. Lady Gaga's consistent use of her massive platform to combat bullying and uplift those at risk makes her a vital voice in creating a more just and accepting world.

Macklemore

Macklemore's iconic hit "Same Love" (with Ryan Lewis) catapulted him to fame and made the case for marriage equality with a heart-wrenching sincerity that resonated across generations.  But his impactful allyship extends beyond that one song. 

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Facing criticism from some within the community, who questioned if a straight, white rapper could authentically represent their struggle, Macklemore engaged in these debates thoughtfully. He acknowledged his privilege while committing to using his platform responsibly.  

This LGBT straight ally continues to address homophobia and transphobia in his music, interviews, and across his social media.  Importantly, Macklemore makes a conscious effort to collaborate with LGBTQIA+ artists,  sharing the spotlight to ensure diverse voices are heard.

Pink

Pink's fierce individuality and message of self-empowerment have always resonated with the LGBTQIA+ community.  She regularly donates to organizations like the Human Rights Campaign that fight for LGBTQIA+ rights.  

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Her critiques of rigid gender roles, sexism, and misogyny intersect powerfully with LGBTQIA+ liberation. From including same-sex couples in her music videos to speaking out against harmful stereotypes, Pink celebrates queerness in all its forms, making it clear that LGBTQIA+ love is valid and worthy of visibility.

Beyoncé

Beyoncé, while not always explicitly political, embodies a celebration of Black womanhood, power, and self-expression that resonates deeply with many in the LGBTQIA+ community.  Her iconic "Formation" song and music video prominently feature powerful imagery of Black queerness, pushing against its erasure within mainstream culture. 

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By working with openly queer dancers, choreographers, and musicians, this beloved lgbt straight ally contributes to their visibility and normalizes LGBTQIA+ identities within pop music. Additionally, she's a vocal supporter of marriage equality and has used her platform to advocate for LGBTQIA+-inclusive legislation.

Kacey Musgraves

Kacey Musgraves challenges conservative norms within country music, making her an important ally. Her lyrics often include themes of inclusivity and acceptance, providing a sense of belonging to LGBTQIA+ fans in a genre where that's rare.  

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Songs like "Follow Your Arrow" (with its playful "kiss lots of boys, or kiss lots of girls" line) gently broaden perspectives within a traditionally conservative fanbase.  

Musgraves embraces the queer community by actively performing at Pride events, signaling that country music can be a welcoming space for everyone. She also subtly pushes gender norms in her visuals and overall aesthetic, especially important in a male-dominated industry like country.

Imagine Dragons

Considering his background in the Mormon faith, which has a historically complex relationship with the LGBTQIA+ community, Imagine Dragons frontman Dan Reynolds's allyship is particularly impactful and courageous. He founded the Loveloud Foundation, an organization focused on supporting LGBTQIA+ youth, particularly those at risk of suicide. 

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Loveloud hosts an annual music festival to raise awareness and funds. The band frequently speaks out against homophobia and transphobia, using their large fanbase to promote acceptance, especially within religious communities. Importantly, by discussing mental health, Imagine Dragons address issues disproportionately impacting LGBTQIA+ youth, offering support even when the focus isn't explicitly on queer identities.

Taylor Swift

Taylor Swift's journey as an LGBT straight ally has been one of evolution. While initially less politically vocal, in recent years she has taken an increasingly strong stand in support of equality. She has publicly donated to organizations like GLAAD and the Tennessee Equality Project, putting financial support behind the fight for LGBTQIA+ rights. 

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Her vibrant music video for  "You Need To Calm Down"  featured numerous queer celebrities and a strong pro-equality message,  sparking conversations about LGBTQIA+ acceptance among her young fanbase.  

While Swift's politics lean liberal, she maintains a large fanbase in conservative areas. By using her voice to promote LGBTQIA+ diversity and inclusion, she has the potential to shift hearts and minds in communities where pro-queer messages are less common.

The Power of Mainstream Allyship

When major artists, especially those with massive fanbases that extend beyond the LGBTQIA+ community, embrace allyship, it has a ripple effect throughout society. Here's why their visibility as advocates matters:

• Reaching New Hearts and Minds: Artists with diverse audiences can introduce LGBTQIA+-affirming messages to people who might otherwise have limited exposure to queer experiences and perspectives. This sparks conversations in households and communities where these topics were once taboo.

• Normalization for Young People: For queer youth, especially those in less accepting environments, seeing mainstream stars champion LGBTQIA+ rights offers vital validation. It sends a message that they deserve respect, dignity, and the freedom to be themselves.

• Role Models Beyond the Community: When straight, cisgender artists actively support LGBTQIA+ equality, it demonstrates to their non-queer fans that allyship is the right thing to do. This can break down prejudice and inspire others to follow their example.

Addressing the Skeptics

It's important to acknowledge that not everyone views mainstream allyship positively. Some critics dismiss it as "virtue-signaling" – artists merely pretending to care about social justice for popularity.  Others worry about the commodification of Pride or fear authentic queer voices being drowned out.

While these concerns have some validity, dismissing all mainstream allyship is counterproductive. Here's why:

• Intentions Matter Less Than Impact: Even if an artist's motives are partially self-serving, the positive effect of their pro-LGBTQIA+ messages on audiences is real.

• A Stepping Stone: Mainstream allyship, even if imperfect, can pave the way for deeper understanding. A young fan who starts questioning their prejudice because of their favorite singer might eventually go on to support smaller queer artists or become an activist themselves.

• Progress Isn't Linear: Achieving full LGBTQIA+ liberation will require a messy mix of grassroots activism and shifts within mainstream culture. While not the only solution, the visibility and normalization that mainstream allies create is an essential part of the process.

The fight for LGBTQIA+ equality is far from over. But music, as it has throughout history, serves as a powerful tool in this ongoing movement. By supporting allies of the LGBTQ community in the music industry who bravely use their platforms to amplify queer voices, challenge harmful stereotypes, and envision a world where everyone can love freely, we become part of this chorus for change. 

Let the activism of these LGBT straight ally artists inspire you to find your own ways, both big and small, to make the world a more welcoming place for the full spectrum of human experience.

For those who hold the microphone, those with a stage and a spotlight: Your influence extends far beyond the notes you sing. You have the power to shape hearts, challenge norms, and offer solace to those made to feel like outsiders.

Use your voice not only to entertain, but to uplift, advocate, and inspire others to join you in creating a world where everyone, regardless of who they love or how they identify, feels safe, respected, and celebrated.

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